Maybe you've caught in situations that require you to choose, would continue or disconnect. If you're experiencing now, there are entries that you can take.
What things do you think the most important in life? Are health, money, love, sex, or other? What do you think is most important in the life course is priceless, and can not be purchased. No matter what you have, without the most important things in life, you can not really enjoy what you have.
Think about it: you can have health and wealth, but if you constantly anxious or worried because he had a problem with your partner, you will not enjoy what you have.
If you are not satisfied in the relationship and not sure what to do, ask yourself: Am I happy with him than I do without it? The main reason to have anyone in your life-friend or lover is because your life becomes better with his presence.
Of course, no relationship is perfect one hundred percent. So you must ask yourself, when with him, what percentage of time you feel happy and what percentage of time you feel sad?
Do you feel peaceful for having love with him? Or are you constantly worried he will cheat, lie, or hurt you? If so, why did you stay with him?
"Hopefully, you do not continue to assume incorrectly that he will change. It is like bringing home a tiger and tiger hope it will menjinak like a house cat, "
You feel you've often chat to discuss the things that interfere with relationships, but bad attitudes have not changed. If she loves you, you will be able to see their business relationships change for the sake of continuity. Instead, he would not care if you do not love you.
Once, take time to calm the mind so that you can enjoy the things that seems small but makes life feel more alive. How you can see the beauty of life if the mind is constantly messed up? Leave the drama on stage there's only theater, but not in your life.
Together with the right person to be your heaven on earth. But with the wrong person will be your hell on earth.
"The Dalai Lama once said, we must first make peace within ourselves if we want to make peace in the world. In the peace of mind, you contribute to the world by creating a more peaceful place, and priceless, "
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