Deanna Lorraine dating expert gives tips for you to help couples get an income, possibly bigger than you, as quoted from Sheknows, Monday (06/12/2010).
What problem
When a woman makes more money than men, it can castrate feelings and cause discomfort husband. She felt worthless and needed his wife. He then was unhappy in this relationship and start looking into another relationship. Where he could feel as a provider and more needed as a human.
Another issue that may arise is a woman may begin to feel hatred towards the man if he should always pay everything. He may be underestimating the man and forced him to pay for everything and the relationship will evolve as the mother-child relationship rather than a couple's relationship.
Loss of interest and respect can also occur. Especially if the husband never contributed to pay because of low income. And he may have lost its attraction for him because it started to feel masculine.
How to help him deal with it
- Do not exaggerate
- Share in terms of financial decisions
- Do not use this to fight it
- Do not insisted on paying for everything
- Open the three types of savings accounts, owned by husband and wife together
- Let him contribute
- Let him who manage expenditure
- So supporters
- Make her feel needed at home
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